Relationship Are Not Ready Made.

Did you know that relationship are not ready made?Yes it’s not,it’s you that will make it work,try and work it out,work harder,build your relationship and make your own to look like it were ready made.To fall in love is very easy and also,fallout of love is very simple.

I have discovered that love doesn’t guarantee the success of a relationship.Love cannot help you stick to one person all year round,and on the other hand,cheating isn’t always a product or not loving your partner.In fact, loving someone doesn’t guarantee  not falling in love with another person.relationship wort out mostly  because of our head not our heart.it work out because of our emotional maturity,empathetic intelligence and self  discipline because  a time will come when you’ll see more beautiful,handsome,romantic,intelligent,sexy,rich,curvy and far more God fearing people than the one you’re in a relationship with in those times,love will not help you,but self control will help you;

Emotional intelligence to your rescue and commitment  will keep you going.with those characteristics,no matter what you feel for someone else,the person you’re committed to will rank first in your life.you think happily married don’t see better people than the ones they married?you think they don’t feel funny or sexy about someone else sometimes?you think they don’t catch feeling,eye contact,smells or even pleasant smile?they do! but understanding commitment is greater than feelings and a great arsenal that destroy that very impulse. You can fall in love with absolutely anyone,but building a relationship takes so much more than what attracted you to them in the first place,it takes more than just love.

We are too fond of loving when convenient,it’s sweet.we too are fond of loving when love is there.but that can only just last for the first 3-6 months of relationship then the exuberance of love and excitement begins to fail and drop.Its then you’ll realise it’s now your responsibility to make it work,not love’s responsibility relationship are not ready made;you have to build it.It’s never always about love alone;it require commitment,it require intelligence it require selflessness.Overall,the moral of the story is;marriage is not just about love that keep you together forever,it’s determination and commitment.Everyone run the risk of falling in love with someone else,it takes little or no effort to do that,but commitment staying in love and building a strong relationship does that.that’s why we need to find the right person and commit to them for life,discipline yourself,bridle your emotions.building a relationship is hard work,it’s like building a career,it’s like pursuing  a dream.

It will become really tough at some point to the point of bitterness .But you can make it work!!! by putting your head together,you can scale through those trying time by being focused and committed.Remember,the kind of love that attract two people together is not the kind of love that will keep them together.Be emotional strong!Be self discipline!


You have to try your very best to make your own relationship to work,make your own marriage to work.



About Igwilo Emilia

Igwilo Afoma Emilia, popularly known as Emilo, is a fast rising Nigerian musician, song writer and producer. A gifted writer and social commentator, Emilo is one of the strong believers of Democracy, Freedom and Social liberty. Her passion for running a news blog stemmed from her quest for truth and desire to keep the people adequately informed about the realities around them.

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